Even communicating with people in life, not every person is able to understand who is in front of him. Only professionals in their field — psychologists and psychiatrists — can recognize who is hiding behind a mask.
Maniacs are, first of all, people who know how to manipulate, so much so that you will not even notice. On the contrary - you will be fascinated by the person, and the psychopath will make all his efforts for this. Real maniacs are thin, educated, and often vulnerable.
If you, communicating with a person, notice these signs, and he seems suspicious to you, maybe a maniac is writing to you?
10. Communication style
Maniacs are reluctant to talk about themselves, evade answers. They do not want to open, because they are afraid to be caught.
But they are interested in your life with pleasure - where you were, with whom you were, what you love, what time you return from work, etc.
If a person does not want to talk about himself - pay attention to it. An ordinary person, on the contrary, likes to talk about himself, to share feelings, news.
But do not confuse a closed man with a maniac! Some people just do not like to talk about themselves and they are uncomfortable when they climb into their souls.
9. Lack of emotions
Another point that should alert. Usually people supplement their messages with emotions - for example, emoticons or words like: “Super! I was in this city too! ”
The maniac’s messages are “dry”, without emotion, and it seems that his every sentence is thought out ... He seems to be writing and looking from the side, feeling nothing.
People are different, there is such a psychological type of people called digital. These people do not communicate in the language of feelings. They are rational and prefer to rely only on logic and facts. Perhaps you are not a maniac, but a digital one.
8. Lies
An attentive person will always notice a lie, just some facts will not converge. If the interlocutor types a message for a long time - this should alert ... Perhaps he does not speak from the heart, but tries to type another manipulating text.
You may also notice that a person answers a question with a question or writes too long messages for which he wants to hide something ... You need to look through the text.
Not only maniacs always print long and long texts. Some people think for a long time and "go" deep into themselves in order to most accurately convey their thoughts. Deep-minded people do not type instant messages, but write large texts.
7. Wants to seem right
The maniac is afraid to be calculated, and tries to seem to the interlocutor the right and good person. In addition, he avoids talking about sex, and you might think that a person is simply shy.
If a person in correspondence is constantly trying to emphasize his kindness, honesty or justice - this should raise doubts about who is in front of you ...
But do not make hasty conclusions! Sometimes people talk a lot about themselves in order to please someone they are interested in.
6. All the time hints at a meeting
The maniac does not stop yours: “I can’t”, “I am busy”, etc. He often hints at a meeting in real life.
If this happens, then you should be careful - it is quite possible that a maniac is already following you, for example, when you go home from work ... And maybe he will get angry that you refuse him and attack in a deserted place.
If the interlocutor insists on a meeting, try not to go to deserted places, or arrange to meet with him, and ask your friends to follow you. In the case of strange actions, let them call the police.
5. Courtesy and courtesy
Maniacs are excellent psychologists, and they know that in order to win a person, you need to be kind, polite and courteous. Nowadays, courtesy is especially appreciated, and it may seem to you that you have met the ideal man.
Watch out if the interlocutor is trying to please you all the time, jokes, etc. In a word, he chokes and waits for the moment when you lose vigilance and fully trust him.
If this happens - ask him to take a picture, say that you want to look at your interlocutor. If he refuses, then it is entirely possible that this is a maniac - they do not like to shine. But there is another reason - some simply do not like their appearance.
4. Strange talk
When a person has nothing to hide, he openly talks about his interests, hobbies, etc. Maniacs of a different way of thinking, they love what they do, they like to feel how they circle their victim around their finger ...
A maniac may say some oddities, for example, that he likes to collect things ... But to your question: “What kind of things are these?” he does not answer. And sometimes after talking with a maniac, you can feel cheated, stupid.
Even if you are not a maniac, you should ask yourself: “Why do I feel stupid and deceived after communication?” Perhaps there are reasons for this. For example, you are a liar and a manipulator.
3. Manipulation techniques
Often become maniacs due to injuries that occurred in childhood. If the child had many complexes and resentment accumulated all his life, then he grows up and learns to manipulate others in order to assert himself.
Maniacs perfectly feel your weaknesses and take advantage of this. Sometimes manipulation is difficult to identify, but you can try if you wish.
You should be embarrassed if the interlocutor is trying to impress or manipulate you, for example: “If you leave now, then I will leave. I don’t know when I can stop by next time. ” If the interlocutor is dear to you, then you will remain, and he will receive his.
2. Content of the page
It is very strange when a person has a blank page, no one is in friends (or just fakes). Maniacs do not like to talk about themselves, open up, let alone upload photos.
It is possible that a maniac does not communicate with anyone in real life. You can try to write to people who are friends with him if they know him.
A completely blank page does not mean that you are a maniac. It is possible that a person has no desire to display information about himself for public display and upload photos.
1. Energy vampire
Usually maniacs have very strong energy, and communicating with them, you feel like you are under the influence, but you cannot get out. You are completely "mired" in the charm of this person, his manipulations ...
The worst part is that some psychopaths leave nothing to their victims, making them puppets. A person simply cannot understand why he cannot refuse to communicate with a maniac.
In this case, you still have to stop communicating with someone who took control of you. You can be drawn to a person, because psychopaths are skillful manipulators, but you will still feel some discomfort ... Let him be a “bell” that it’s time to run away from him.