For many people, thirty is a critical age. Nevertheless, these things are very important, they will help you change and feel a little happier.
10. Gain financial independence
The lack of money and good work at 20 years old is perceived by others normally. But at 30 you should have solid ground under your feet. Otherwise, what did you do these almost 10 years after graduation? Of course, not everyone at that age achieves what they dreamed about, but you should have at least a well-paid job. And also the amount of savings "just in case". You do not know what will happen to you tomorrow. By the age of 30, it is time to learn how to make money. By the way, they can be received not only for the main work. After all, as a rule, these are days, weeks, months spent in an office at a computer or at a factory behind a machine. There are many other ways. Investing, own business. You must have several sources of income, then you will not be left with nothing.
9. Get in shape - better than ever
Young girls and boys can look pretty good, even if they danced all night. Most of them do not count calories, but prefer long walks or gatherings in bars to sports. But in order for your body to not change by the age of 30, you need to take care of it. Proper nutrition and exercise will help you lose weight and tighten your figure. Get started now, don’t put off until tomorrow. A body that does not know sports can still look good in youth, but over the years only physical education will help to maintain a figure.
8. Visit the new continent
If you haven’t gone anywhere further than your summer house before 30, urgently correct yourself. Visit another city, another country. Ideal if you decide to visit a new continent. You will be amazed at how diverse the world is. New experiences and emotions will make you open. You will learn a lot, become an interesting conversationalist, get rid of many prejudices concerning different countries. After all, you remember that many foreigners think that bears with accordions walk in the streets of Russia. You will learn to value your country, or you may decide to move abroad for permanent residence.
7. Write a letter to your future self
A very interesting way to communicate with yourself. If there is enough time left before your thirtieth birthday, write yourself a letter. Describe in it how you live now, what you feel, what questions concern you. Be sure to write how you see yourself in 30 years. Open this letter on your thirtieth birthday. For you, this meeting with yourself will be very pleasant. You will be able to assess whether you have achieved what you wanted. Or maybe you will change so much that childhood dreams will only amuse you.
6. Stop looking for someone else's approval
By the age of 30, it would be time to already understand that living, looking back at someone else's opinion is not the best option. So you will never be happy. You will strive for the ideals of others, live as it is accepted. Pass by the work of your life, because it is not prestigious in the opinion of relatives and friends. Even in your personal life, you can make mistakes if you constantly listen to the opinions of others. You have your own head on your shoulders. Live as you see fit. Do not listen to anyone or pay attention to the opinions of others.
5. Embark on a spontaneous journey
While you are young, do it. Your measured life will begin when children appear in your family. Then you definitely can’t rush to the sea or to a ski resort. At best, you will go with the whole family, but even then you are unlikely to rest. Use every opportunity to travel. Well, on a trip, do not spend all the time on the beach or at a table in a cafe. Visit interesting places, go on excursions. Discover the world, then you will be interesting to live. Remember in "adult" life you may not have such an opportunity.
4. Face your main fear
You must learn to overcome your fears, otherwise then it will be even more difficult for you to cope with them. There are many ways that can help you with this. Go to the psychologist, meditate. Take a closer look at the subject of your fear; perhaps it will not seem so terrifying to you. Find like-minded people, in a team fears are much easier to overcome. When you can overcome your fear, you will be very proud of yourself. Plus, your self-esteem will increase, you will become more confident in yourself.
3. Learn to say no
You must learn to say no, otherwise your life will gradually turn into a nightmare. Do not agree to requests that you can fulfill with difficulty, to the detriment of yourself. It would not be hard for you to refuse, but gather all your strength and just say no. You will see that life becomes easier. No more lingering after work if you are not paid. No need to sit with the girlfriend’s children while she is shopping. There is no need to do many more things that you basically do not want to do. Learning to refuse is not at all difficult. Speak calmly, confidently. No need to mumble and make excuses. You do not owe anything to anyone. But of course, do not overdo it. Do not refuse people if their request is up to you, and they are ready to come to your aid in difficult times.
2. Learn a new language
At school everyone studied a foreign language, and someone else was not alone. But the maximum that most people can say is: “Hello, how are you? My name is …". But knowledge of the language, especially English, helps a lot in life. You will be given preference in interviews, you will find a job faster. You will be able to communicate with foreigners, go on a trip without unnecessary worries. You can watch films in the original translation, read the books of great writers. You will become a diversified person. In addition, there are now many opportunities to learn a foreign language. You can do it yourself, there is plenty of information on the Internet.
1. Read at least a hundred books
You have never been interested in reading, you are not at all interested in books. Try reading anyway. Only in this way can you become an educated, pleasant person in communication. The vocabulary will increase, you will learn a lot. But among many books, give preference to classics or encyclopedias. Reading cheap tabloid novels or detective stories, unfortunately, will not affect your intellectual level. Reading contributes to the development of creative abilities, improves attention. This is not only useful, but also a very pleasant experience.